So, today during a lunch break. My colleagues and I had this interesting discussion about cheating in romantic relationships. When it comes this field(relationships), everyone has their own reservations, expectations, considerations. Now, all this affects the way the relationship goes , how long it lasts and how strong it will be. ….it also gives people like us what to write about 🙂
Okay, okay back to the main topic, the point of discussion was along these lines “Is it the same thing when a man cheats and when a woman cheats? “. Wait. Didn’t catch that. You just answered with something. Right? Not sure? Now, Colleague A (a guy) on the lunch table felt strongly that it is not the same thing!
“What?” went the girl at the other end of the table, “It is the same thing because you are seeing someone else apart from your partner!….” Other girl, “Whether you are a man or a woman, it is the same thing! Both of them hurt!”
As it turns out, Colleague A had done his research on this particular subject, “In all religions and beliefs of the world, there is nowhere that a woman is allowed to have two men, ” Colleague A went on “actually, in some religions, it is fine for men to marry more than one woman”. He went on to mention how God created a man, as the first prototype and blah blah. Colleague B (consider him to be an innocent by stander) mentioned some tribe in Uganda where a woman can marry several men,…lol. An analogy was made about a key that can open many padlocks and that would be master key and a padlock that can be operated by many keys that would have something wrong with it.
Well, if this was a debate, it ended before the winner was identified. I hope to gather some more points next lunch break…hopefully, can’t promise anything. What’s your say?